Wednesday, January 31, 2007

My Cup Of Coffee and Your Cup of Coffee!!!!!!!

Today I visited a food blog and I found one of the blogger personal message is interesting and I would like to share with all of you:

"What you really wanted was coffee, not the cup, but you consciously went for the best cups and worse, you were eyeing each other's cups. "

It is true we always forget the real meaning of our life and constantly admire other people life without even notice what we have is tailor made for our life.....What you want is in yourself, you don;t need to loooook into other people life.

Treasure yourself and treasure all your belonging....friends, famalies, house and .......your life!

Tuesday, January 30, 2007



Saturday, January 27, 2007

Winter is boring - Cold and Grey!!!!

I don't like winter especially a winter without sun shine......the sky is grey....the air is thin.....the people is boring......eveywhere is full of scream...shout !!!!!

The scenary of this photo beautiful isn;t it but .................!!!!

Saturday, January 20, 2007

What Is A Meaning Of Life To A 13 Year Old Tennager

This poem is written by a 13 year old teenager with cancer at a New York Hospital.
She wants to see how many people get her poem.
It is a quite amazing poem! Please pass it on...
这是一首令人深省的诗! 请把它传下去…


Have you ever watched kids on a merry-go-round?
Or listened to the rain
Slapping on the ground?
Ever followed a butterfly's erratic flight?
你是否跟着一只蝴蝶 漫无目标的飞旅过?
Or gazed at the sun into the fading night?
或凝视着太阳直到她 消失在夜幕之中?
You better slow down.
Don't dance so fast.
Time is short.
The music won't last.

Do you run through each day on the fly?
When you ask How are you?
Do you hear the reply?
When the day is done!
Do you lie in your bed with the next hundred chores
Running through your head?
You'd better slow down
Don't dance so fast.
Time is short.
The music won't last.

Ever told your child,
We'll do it tomorrow?
And in your haste,
Not see his (her)sorrow?
Ever lost touch,
Let a good friendship die cause you never had time
To call and say,"Hi!"
You'd better slow down.
Don't dance so fast.
Time is short.
The music won't last.

When you run so fast to get somewhere
You miss half the fun of getting there
你失去的将是人生旅程中 一半真正的快乐。
When you worry and hurry through your day,
当你带着繁忙的懊恼 结束你的每一天,
It is like an unopened gift............thrown away.
Life is not a race.
Do take it slower
Hear the music
Before the song is over……

Wednesday, January 10, 2007

Sky is Blue???? I doubt!!!

I look at the sky today, I believe it is blue but to me it is grey. Life is so unpredictable, sometime you think you done nothing wrong, you have done enough but you are wrong because you are not the person to judge whether you are right or wrong, it is others whose live around you will make the judgement!!

Sometime it is too tire..try to figure out what have you done right and what have you done wrong. If you think you have done enough but in actual fact it is way way not enough at least in the eyes of other people.

You work so hard but do not earn any appreciation and it is really frustrated. However if you think you are the victim of life, you are wrong, everybody will claim they are the one whose are being what is the conclusion???

I loss my steam, I can't even spell out my frustration can't blame nobody, everything have a couse and effect, thing just follow this principle. Everything you suffer is something you have done sometime ago, you just have to face the consequences alone..

Ah! I don;t know what I say!!!! Let it be, life need to go on matter what

Sunday, January 07, 2007

A Letter To My Daughter - Feeling Of Success

16th November, 2006.
Mandarin City 205.

Today I received a good news, my daughter achieve a great success in her examine scoring 7 straight A in her UPSR exam. A lot of people may not know how difficult this success has come by, how many efforts my wife and the family have put in, holding on two syllabuses in two different countries and putting a lot of hard time in my family.

I wonder whether my kid is able to understand the meaning of success and devotion in her achievement. How many effort needs to pour in and how many tears lead to this great moment. I want to ask her how she feel for this success……whether this is a great moment of her life…….Did she still remember the hard time she have gone through before she taste the great pleasure of success? How family has helped her to achieve this great success?

I want her to taste the feel of success? Why! Because once she taste it she won't want to let go this wonderful feeling and on the same time she do not forget she need to devote to earn this wonderful taste of success, nothing coming free not even the air we breath.

Life for her is just a beginning of a long journey, she have long way to catch up. I hope she will never forget the wonderful taste of success just like I have my first taste many many years ago. Although I am still struggling till today but take into account of the weakness I have, I shall say I am lucky enough……..considering the constraints I face, I shall say I have achieve considerable degree of success.

Beforehand, trust in faith, trust in yourself and pray everyday you will meet good people. I hope today is the beginning of better tomorrow for my daughters.

Let the praise that she received today from family, friends, teachers…..will create a force for her to continue to want to have the taste of success in her life. Let the feel of greatness fill in her heart….melt into her blood become part of her body and soul for ever lasting success in her life.

May god bless her!!!

Saturday, January 06, 2007

Life Have A Different Meaning For Him!!!!!

他的名字叫王致中, 今年17岁. 他在贵州以背煤为生.一箩煤40kG,从煤坑内向上爬100米,然后再走1000米山路,才可挣1元人民币.(RM 0.50)

嗨! 孩子,
你看了这照片以后,有什么感想吗? 你是不是觉得你和他相比太幸福了。





07.07.2004, 中国,杭州。

Discuss "FREEDOM" with my daugther!!

Hi Girl,
I am not dissapointed with you neither I am angry with you. I think what we lack of here is communication.....I understand it have been harsh on you for the past one year but we think this the best alternative for your future. You may not understand the reason WHY but I too agree that one day you will understand.

I agree I am not a perfect father but I am willingly to listen and undertand your problem if you too willingly to play your part. I am once going through the same process as you experience now, to tell you truth, I encouter even more terrible experience in my childhood than you (Talk to your grandmother if you want to know more but I don't want you to burden with my story), I also have the same accusation made to my family when I was your age but when I grow older, I start to realise what is life!!!!!! then I start to appreciate what FAMILY mean to me, I start understand why my parent are doing to me at that age..... I start to realize a lot of ...a lot of things. I don;t expect to feel the same way now beacuse this feeling can only gain through have long way to go before understand what is this mean to you......!!!

Remember this, freedom come with a price, you only get your freedom if you earn for it or you have to be ready for it........Freedom does not mean going out freely, do not finish your homework and do not stay good grade with your school work.

I recognize that to ask you to take extra exam is putting a heavy load on your shoulder but this is going to end soon. I promise you, you will go back to your normal live.

Don't only blame your parent alone, everything have a cause and if we want to talk it out frankly and play our own part....thing will get easy!

There are a lot thing you still do not understand, I forgive you for your ignorant about LIFE, it is too hard to ask you to understand this topic but we want you to TRUST us, we are preparing you for your final FREEDOM.

I am always proud about you but sometime I get dissapointed on how you handle yourself but I believe you will understand one day how important to be able to know how to take care yourself and be able to manage yourself. You must understand if you want FREEDOM, you must know how to manage yourslf which include your FREEDOM.

How to manage yourself including instill self dicipline on your daily life, know how to finished homework on yourself, knowing when and what to do! play your own part of responsibility at home.

FREEDOM also doesn;t mean you can do whatever you want, buy whatever you tell you the truth, even for me and your mother we can;t do whatever we want and buy whatever we like even though we are financially capable of doing it.

So, girl, FREEDOM is not a simple topic to discuss neither it is not simple way to practice, however if you capable to get all the necessary skill to look for FREEDOM, you will get your "FREEDOM" one day. ( I put a " " on the word Freedom because you can never get a true Freedom.)

Lastly your mum may be HARSH on you but you must understand she have done all she can do to make sure you will get the best of everything. Communication is still the best tool to let you mum understand....let talk nice and reasonably to her and you must also learn how to deal with your parent ......this is part of skill you need to learn, not only to friends and teacher, parent also need to manage.... ( IF you do not know, welcome to talk to me!)

I am asking you to play your part and our parent play our part and I don;t believe we can;t sort thing out. I reassure you I don;t against your Freedom but you must prepare youself first before you can even ask for it.

I and your mum LOVE you with our WHOLE heart.

By the way, give your sister more LOVE and she will return with double! TRUST Me!!